AC/DC - Bi-Sexual Person(s)

Arts - Fetishes

B&D or BD - Bondage and Discipline

Back Door - Anal Sex

BBC - Big Black Cock

BBW - Big Beautiful Woman. Larger than average woman that is very beautiful regardless of size or weight.

BDSM - Bondage - Discipline - SadoMasochism

BI or Bisexual - Someone that enjoys sex with both men and women.

Bi-Curious - Someone that is curious, interested in or has had limited Bisexual experience.

Bondage - The practice of restraining a person(s) for sexual pleasure.

Bull - A sexually dominant male.

Can Entertain - Someone that has a private location and is willing to invite others over.

Can Travel - Someone that is willing to travel, generally beyond an hours drive.

CD - Cross Dresser - Person who sometimes wears clothing associated with the opposite sex, generally used by men.

Clean - Diseases and Drug Free

CNC - Consensual non-consent - A type BDSM play.

Cougar - An older woman who sexually pursues men significantly younger than herself. Some definitions define the age difference as at least 8 years.

Couple - Two people, generally one male, one female.

CPL - Couple

Cuckold - The husband of a wife/girlfriend. Often (but not always) seeking to please his partner's needs in a weak, effeminate, inadequate or subservient way allowing others to take complete control over his partner and/or both of them.

Cuckqueen - A cuckquean is a wife or girlfriend of a husband/boyfriend. A cuckquean is the gender-opposite of a cuckold.

Cunnilingus - Oral stimulation of the vagina/clitoris

DD - Clean, disease and drug free.

Discipline - Spanking, bondage or similar practice intended to arouse sexual desire.

DP - Double Penetration, simultanious Vaginal and Anal.

DVP - Double Vaginal Penetration - Two penises in one vagina.

ENM - Ethically Non Monogamous - Engaging in romantic relationships that are not completely exclusive between two people.

Entertain - Can Entertain

Exhibitionism - Showing off in public, involving nudity.

F - Female

Fellation - Oral stimulation of the penis

Fetish - Sexual stimulation via non sexual acts or objects.

FFM - Two females and a male. Female-Female-Male. May indicate bi female play, but do not assume.

Full Swap - A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to AND including intercourse.

FWB - Friends With Benefits: Friends who have casual sex without any kind of commitment.

Gay - Homosexual, generally a male, but not always.

GBM - Gay Black Man

GWM - Gay White Male

Hall Pass - An agreement between a couple where one or both of them may have sex with other people.

Heterosexual - One who enjoys and has sex with only the opposite sex.

Homosexual - One who enjoys and has sex with only the same sex.

Hotwife - A happily married woman that enjoys having sex outside the marriage with the full support of her husband. The husband is generally monogamous with his wife and may or may not watch her with other men.

Hung - One with a large penis

HWP - Height/Weight Proportionate. Someone that is not overweight or underweight.

ISO - In Search Of

Lesbian - Gay women.

LTR - Long Term Relationship

M - Male

MBC - Married Black Couple

MBiC - Married Bi Couple

MFM - Two males and female. Male-Female-Male. Some people may use MMF to indicate bi male play.

MILF - Mother I'd Like (to) Fuck

Moresome - More than four.

MWC - Married White Couple

NSA - No Strings Attached

Off-Premise - A swing club or party where there are no designated locations for play. This may or may not exclude the activity from actually taking place.

P/P - Photo/Phone

Poly (Polyamory) - Having more than one open romantic relationship at a time.

S&M or SM - Sadism/Masochism

Safe - Someone that is not at risk for becoming or causing a pregnancy.

SBF - Single Black Female

SBiF - Single Bi Female

SBiM - Single Bi Male

SBM - Single Black Male

SGL - Single

Sodomy - Usually Anal sex, possibly forced.

Soft Swing/Swingers - A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to but not including intercourse.

STD - Sexually Transmitted Disease.

STR8 or STR or Straight - Straight, a Heterosexual person.

Swap or Swapping - Two couples exchanging partners

SWF - Single White Female

SWM - Single White Male

Unicorn - Slang for a single, generally bi-sexual female that participates in the lifestyle. Referred to as a "unicorn" because they are so rare.

Vanilla - In the context of the lifestyle, a person who is not a swinger.

Versatile - Bisexual

Voyeur or Voyeurism - One who enjoys watching.

Water Sports - Urination involving sexual stimulation.